Re: Bachelor in Paradise - Episode 12 - Sept. 7, 2015

by OhPlease12 Wed Sep 09, 2015 4:46 pm

Starz wrote:
OhPlease12 wrote:
I couldn't agree more Starz, isn't it amazing how looks and personality can cloud the real issue? Tenley tries to come across as sweet and innocent, and yet in the end, she showed very little compassion compared to Kirk, who was so torn up.
Exactly!

On a slightly different note Starz, what were your thoughts on Carly's behavior on After Paradise? I thought she was so cruel to Kirk, it had me squirming all over the place.

by **SLA44** Wed Sep 09, 2015 5:47 pm

Someone that knows Becca and her family starting posting on another board and she said that there is probably a 1% or less chance that Becca would ever do this show again. She said that Becca and her family are glad that she is away from the cameras (TV cameras).

by **USN** Wed Sep 09, 2015 6:04 pm

SLA, I just came across this article.

http://www.starpulse.com/news/index.php/2015/09/09/becca-tilley-stands-jared-haibon-up-in

by **SLA44** Wed Sep 09, 2015 6:48 pm

Thank you USN. I saw something about this on another board but it seems neither place knows what happened there. As far as her appearing on Ben's season it seem more unlikely than anything. Her friend posted on the other board today that her family does not want her to go on that show again and didn't like the editing that Becca got and especially that was done on the HTD with the family. Evidently her family was not in favor of going on Chris' season and aren't fans of being in the limelight. She if Becca goes on it would be a last minute decision.

As much as I liked Becca and I do think her and Ben would make a good couple I would prefer she stay away from the Bach franchise altogether and that includes the BN. If Ben and Becca were meant to be together they could do that away from the franchise IMO.

by FillePensive Wed Sep 09, 2015 11:21 pm

I am happy for Tanner and Jade. I wish them well. I am impressed with how several people in relatively "longer" term relationships handled break-ups. In my opinion Jared was kind to Ashley I. and Tenley was kind to Joshua, as best as a person can be when they are the one initiating a break-up. In the end they were honest about not wanting to continue. I did not see the break-up of Carly and Kirk. I think those long term relationships were genuine dating relationships, yet one of the couple probably knew sooner than what we were shown that it was not going to be a relationship that would last outside of BIP. It's possible that Jared, Tenley, and Kirk were tapped by producers behind the scenes to continue in their developing relationships for the span of the season and the producers chose the timing of the close of the relationship. It is similar to a lead on the Bach or B'ette dating a contestant they really like for the bulk of the season, but the lead is not falling in love with that person, and lets them go at a specific rose ceremony chosen by the producer. I think the long term relationships are authentic, but the timing of the break-up is producer driven.

by beardiedawg Sun Sep 13, 2015 10:23 am

I was away and behind in my show watching so can finally read and post.

I almost felt like Kirk has a habit of running way when things get serious. He really could have said at that point that he wasn't where she was and they needed to slow down and see if something would come of it. I had an ex that did the same. That hot and heavy to icy cold just doesn't work.

If Tenley is so accustom to her lifestyle, she never should have come on the show. Obviously she had no intention of moving no matter who she met there. I agree that what she did was just as bad as Kirk.

I didn't originally like Jared on Ette. He wasn't physically attractive to me, almost even in an ugly way. As that show went on, I grew to really like him and his looks. When I heard he was joining BIP, I was so afraid he would fall for all the drama and become dislike-able. I am so glad he maintained his humanity and compassion throughout the show.

by rc49ers Sat Sep 26, 2015 8:40 pm

Hl , Just read where Ashley Satler is engage to her Collage Sweetheart .
He's cute .
I guess three times a charm .

by **rkc1960** Mon Sep 28, 2015 7:50 am

Thanks for the heads up, rc49ers.

Here's a link to the story with a nice pic of the ring:

http://www.eonline.com/news/695979/the-bachelor-s-ashley-salter-is-engaged-to-her-college-sweetheart-check-out-her-gorgeous-ring?cmpid=rss-000000-rssfeed-365-topstories&ut

by Guest Mon Sep 28, 2015 9:28 am

Thanks, rkc. A happy ending for Ashley...or is it a happy beginning? Either way.

by **Starz** Mon Sep 28, 2015 4:49 pm

Good for Ashley!
Some how, some way, the franchise will take credit for her engagement.

by **SLA44** Mon Sep 28, 2015 4:53 pm

rkc1960 wrote:Thanks for the heads up, rc49ers.

Here's a link to the story with a nice pic of the ring:

http://www.eonline.com/news/695979/the-bachelor-s-ashley-salter-is-engaged-to-her-college-sweetheart-check-out-her-gorgeous-ring?cmpid=rss-000000-rssfeed-365-topstories&ut

rkc for posting the link!

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