Bachelor in Paradise - Episode 12 - Sept. 7, 2015

Hopefully, the last episode........

Virgin Ashley Might Go All the Way in 'Bachelor in Paradise' Season Finale?

http://www.etonline.com/news/171351_virgin_ashley_might_go_all_the_way_bachelor_paradise_season_finale/

Did Ashley lose her virginity?  I didn't watch the entire show.

DebTavares wrote:Did Ashley lose her virginity?  I didn't watch the entire show.

It was anticlimactic. 

Buckeye Belle wrote:

DebTavares wrote:Did Ashley lose her virginity?  I didn't watch the entire show.

It was anticlimactic. 

LOL I'm gonna guess no then. 

DebTavares wrote:Did Ashley lose her virginity?  I didn't watch the entire show.

She didn't lose it. She lost him.

He left. She left.

When Jared spoke about his and Ashley I.'s relationship on After Paradise, he said that it's hard especially when Ashley I wrote that letter.  To me, he had given away the ending, their ending.  I don't think she lost her virginity to him, either.

I can overlook Kirk's delay in breaking up with Carly a week after he started having doubts, but to follow her around and persist they have further conversation about it was too much.  He should have respected her feelings.

Buckeye Belle wrote:It was anticlimactic. 

Great choice of word, Belle!

I think we could predict what would happen between Jared and Ashley and for sure she didn't lose her virginity to him.

What happened to my rather long post???

I found it - this was posted at 10am this morning.

I actually watched this train wreck last night. My thoughts . . .

Jared & Ashley did not have sex. Jared is a gentleman all the way. At only 26, he is the most mature person on BIP - and maybe all of BN. I really like and respect him.

I think that Ashley did grow up a bit on BIP. I hope so. I have always liked her even on the Bach.

I can "understand" Carly to a point, however, she showed herself to be very immature and lacking in human understanding. Kirk really did care for her and was getting cold feet as 99.9% of men do when they are falling for someone. She could have used that to her advantage and made their relationship even stronger. But being an immature brat, she flushed a good thing down the toilet.

Jade & Tanner - I haven't watched the show enough to comment, although, everything last night seemed fine.

Nick & Samantha deserve each other.

JJ & Cassandra? Too soon to tell.

 I agree Starz,AGAIN!! Think Ill just come on here and let you post my thoughts for me! you do it so well!!

dori1333 wrote:  I agree Starz,AGAIN!! Think Ill just come on here and let you post my thoughts for me! you do it so well!!

Ha ha ha - Thanks Dori! But remember, great minds think alike, so You Rock, too!

BTW! I also had a caddy and an olds convertible!

dori1333 wrote: BTW! I also had a caddy and an olds convertible!

Isn't it amazing how "strangers" can join a message board and find people with so much in common! I love that about the internet.

I loved my Cutlass convertible. I only had it about 6 months before my brother destroyed it. 10 years later, he made up for it by selling me his Mustang convertible for only $300! I had that car for 23 years.
  LOVED my Mustang!!

My Cadillac was a Eldorado ,no less!!   But I really liked my convertible ! It was prettiest shade of blue with a blue top!  oh, memories!

skt8word wrote:When Jared spoke about his and Ashley I.'s relationship on After Paradise, he said that it's hard especially when Ashley I wrote that letter.  To me, he had given away the ending, their ending.  I don't think she lost her virginity to him, either.

I can overlook Kirk's delay in breaking up with Carly a week after he started having doubts, but to follow her around and persist they have further conversation about it was too much.  He should have respected her feelings.

I agree with what you said about Carly and Kirk. There was no point in discussing their relationship anymore. She just wanted to leave and be done with him. He probably didn't want to look bad in front of everyone else so he tried to fix things when it was too late to fix anything.

As far as Ashley is concerned, I'm sure that you are right in saying she didn't lose her virginity. I think that too much is made of that anyway.

I love that Cassandra and Jonathan are a couple.. They met on a set for a commercial.. He was the talent and she was the makeup artist.. They've been together just over a month they said..  Would be nice if they make it..

Well, you don't have to worry for a while Lesallee.  According to After Paradise, Sam is still with Nick.

Tanner and Jade are the cutest couple!

It's funny you say this, glitters.  I was just thinking how Jade blossomed during BIP.  I never thought she was attractive on Chris' season, but once that confident smile broke through.... wow.  Every guy's girl next door.

May I say that Tenley's kiss-off was the kindest, most rational break-up I've ever witnessed.  The woman is amazing (and I don't use that word lightly.) 

I was indifferent to Sam and Nick still being together.  All she did during BIP was pose.

I hope that somewhere down the line, we hear about Carly finding the right guy.

I'm surprised at how few people are commenting on the show in the last couple of weeks.  Have we jumped the gun to DWTS and left this one prematurely behind?

Singly - I politely disagree with you about Tenley.  She should not have dragged it out if she knew that was what she was going to do.  I would think after all the fiascoes with Kiptyn she'd have had more sense than to go down to the end with this.

I'm not surprised at the small number of comments.  This show jumped the shark a while back and I believe many fans were just turned off.  JMHO.

newto wrote:Singly - I politely disagree with you about Tenley.  She should not have dragged it out if she knew that was what she was going to do.  I would think after all the fiascoes with Kiptyn she'd have had more sense than to go down to the end with this.

I'm not surprised at the small number of comments.  This show jumped the shark a while back and I believe many fans were just turned off.  JMHO.

I have to agree with you ,newto! It doesnt make a difference if its man or woman.Kirk has been criticized for not speaking up sooner ,I feel  the same applies to Tenley! I feel kirk had a problem with expressing his feelings because he didnt want to hurt her! I dont feel the same about Tenley,she knew they didnt have the same lifestyles as she called it!  She just has a more articulate way of excusing herself! I truly believe Kirk cared for Carly and felt terrible and still does!Not so much with Tenley!And it is JMO!