Is "stealing" the Bachelor helps?

Of course, "stealing" is figure of speech...
Taking Arie on the side for personal chit-chat shows that girl is dedicated, or less shy, or more aggressive, or more strategic, just name it
But does it really help the case? 
Chelsey did it first, and got a first impression rose.
(Her manner to talk is giving me creeps, I don't know why...)
But Krystal, who is pleasant, "stole" Arie three times last episode, saying "I miss you"
For some reason I thought that she might loose some points with this approach...

I think it doesn't usually help the women.  But it helps the powers that be in furthering their purposes. 

There is such a thing as becoming a pest doing that time after  time.

If he wants to get to know all the women then he needs to learn to say no.